

Living Beyond Belief is a voyage to an island of truth in a sea of confusion. There are many books that provide insights into the human condition and how we might better make our way through our life’s journey. Few contrast the two worlds of Mind and Soul more deeply or elegantly than Jaia Lee’s Living Beyond Belief.
Jaia is not writing from the viewpoint of one who has read many books, distilled their wisdom and put them in her own words. Rather, she has been through her own dark night of the soul that included one hundred pounds of insulation from an abusive husband and the drugs she took in an attempt to numb her psychic pain.
Coming through the other side of her personal hell is a compassionate woman and mother whose words reflect the choices that led her to freedom. It is that gift of freedom she offers readers and, as she points out many times in her book, it is neither an easy choice nor path once chosen, but the ultimate rewards are the embodiment of Love, Peace, Joy and the magical adventure life was for many of us as children.
As we leave a free spirited childhood, we can easily begin losing our spontaneity, our creativity and our connection to the oneness we felt with life. For many, this shutting down process continues until we are mere shadows of our former Selves. Once we give up our dreams, we can easily morph into frustrated, angry and depressed teens and adults and leave our passions and the gifts we came to share behind.
A kind and generous teacher, Jaia shares her wisdom based on her life experiences so we might reclaim our connection with our Self and the deep fountain of life available to us if we begin to remember our Source. She begins by sharing her experience with her daughter, Ariel, who was the catalyst for her awakening and whose precious life was placed in her hands. In kinder garden, Jaia learned that Ariel had a seventh-grade reading comprehension level and intuitively knew that in order to nourish her genius, home-schooling was a wise choice. Public schools are unable to provide individualized education and a rich and nourishing environment for the soul and creativity of each child. As a result, Ariel’s genius expanded and continues to. A
And, Jaia believes that Ariel’s genius is present in every child awaiting release. Rather than placing limits on Ariel, Jaia encouraged her to reach for the stars of her dreams, explore, be, and discover as she does for each reader of her book. When asked how she was able to raise a child who was so bright, outspoken and at the same time respectful, Jaia replied, “I just loved her …and asked what would serve her on a Soul level.”
Part of the success Jaia achieved came not from her own mind but from trusting that everything would unfold perfectly from a place of deep listening and wisdom that she describes as Divine Intelligence.
The rest of her wonderful book is all about moving beyond the limiting ideas we may have about our children, ourselves or others and how to tap into that world that lies largely hidden in a culture fixated on the material world while disregarding the invisible. The fact that we only see a very small part of the world through the visible spectrum does not usually register when we are hypnotized by media and authorities we are taught to obey at the expense of our intuitions.
Our childhood wounds and fears can easily color our world and have us projecting idealized images and ideas on others, giving up our power and living as vistims. How to untangle the insanity, the cognitive dissonances of life at almost all levels is hardly an easy task but Jaia is living proof it is possible and through her teaching helps others realize their own inherent potential to live an engaged life. Making the process even more challenging, our egos seek safety and security guarding our Soul’s expressions rather than serving them. Through the books deep conversation, Jaia is able to speak Soul to Soul and before long, a familiar territory can begin to reveal itself, a remembering of the way it was and still is.
A few quotes from Living Beyond Belief may help illuminate several of its reoccurring themes. Many will pass this book by and continue in their self created suffering but some will choose to allow its words to penetrate their hearts and souls bypassing the conditioned mind and for those, the journey may be like a breath of fresh air. The book is self selective and each individual will know if this is the right book at the right time in their lives. And, even if this book is not a life changing catalyst as it has been for many, there is enough truth and wisdom in it to provide readers with a glimpse into another dimension of being and at least some of the ideas may prove useful.
A child could go through his or her entire childhood and never really be seen for who he or she is, but only for what they are supposed to be according to someone else’s definition of good. Only then, when they are fitting nicely into that idea, are they given positive acknowledgment. To most, this is an absolutely justifiable parenting strategy; but in the long term, it produces disastrous results, since the discovery process is the very thing needed to bring out the genius within. You have to color outside the lines to be a great artist. You have to fail hundreds, if not thousands of experiments to discover anything of real significance. What the conditioned mind usually does is stop that organic process in its tracks in order to maintain the illusion of control and the joy, the discovery, the unique gift, gets replaced by the idea of what is acceptable. Life becomes stifled. Beliefs are formed about behavior. We end up living at the effect of a dead and lifeless belief system, rather than the First Cause, fully alive, Self-aware, unlimited, creative Beingness We truly Are.
We couldn’t be doing a better job of conditioning people to see themselves and their lives as fragmented and compartmentalized than by teaching subjects in a disassociated fashion, as opposed to demonstrating the interrelatedness and interconnectedness of all subjects and their enhancement of, and dependence upon, one another.
When we experience life from the eternal part of ourselves rather than our personal selves, we can begin to exist in a world independent of personal reaction and the effect of that reaction. We will be able to remain in a state of equanimity and peace regardless of outer circumstances. We will be able to demonstrate more fully what is most real about us as spiritual beings and generate numerous creative win/win experiences and solutions.
It’s the letting go part that is always the most challenging – letting go of blame and judgment. Of fear. Fixed identities. Control.
In an expanded awareness – an awareness of our unbounded, unlimited Self and Life – we realize the error of believing anyone guilty of something we needed to forgive them for in the first place.
We begin to experience life outside the relative bounds of good and evil, we stop measuring events and people against a set mental standard of right and wrong and we begin to trust that everything that comes our way is in service to, and an opportunity for, our growth, our joy, our expression and Our Life. We see that everything that happens in the world is an opportunity for Life to take on a greater expression and seek a grander vision.
How threatening are these ideas to our Ego and fixed ways of thinking? Very and many if not most people may think these the ideas of a lunatic-of someone out of their mind which is exactly the point. In order to escape the prison of the past we must let it go and discover what lies on the other side. A book title by spiritual teacher Krishnamurti comes to mind, Freedom From the Known. If we allow ourselves to take this voyage into the unknown, it is quite possible we may never shrink back to our former selves but instead, learn to reside in a new expansive Self generating world of creation. If life has left you or a friend wanting more authenticity than more money, more passion than more comfort, this book might be for you and you might discover when you allow yourself to be used by the evolutionary field and become a servant of your Soul and the world, that the life that unfolds provides all you have ever dreamed of and more. As Jaia says, “you are not here to live out your idea of a great life, but your true Life.”
Everything comes to you in order for you to reveal greater versions of your Self, in a complete surrender to the process, a complete Trust in Life, there is no stress, there is no worry, there is no fear.
A true sense of wholeness comes from being able to find your true voice and communicate from the deepest part of your being. It comes from being able to see yourself in another and have great compassion, love and understanding for anyone. At any time. It comes from seeing yourself as the beloved and knowing you are supported, directed and sourced by the Universe itself because you have come to know you are the Universe and so is everyone else.
What Jaia is describing here is a life of Spirit, a life of God, a flow, simply being yourself, paying attention, and listening for and taking action on your next step when you become aware of it.
Chapters include Purpose: What Am I Doing Here?; Belief: The Foundation of Experience; Projection: Polishing the Mirror and Intention: The Rudder of Your Ship.
Included in each chapter are a selection of Jaia’s poetry including this one that ends the book:
So when did you forget?
The game isn’t over yet
When did you stop playing?
If you choose to stifle
and keep your Self bridled
it’s only joy you’re delaying.
The wise ones all know
to possess that glow,
one must become like a child,
It’s somewhat tragic
to cut off the magic
that remains within all the while
So just let yourself go
and always know
that heaven is at hand
When you can smile
and just play a while
Life becomes more than you planned.